some people would like to think that they are perfect. yet that cant be further from the truth. have you thought about what would happen once you reached perfection nothing thats it its over you cant improve on it for that is the realization of a complete idea in all its factuality.so no matter how hard you try you will never reach that state which is reserved for gods.
so some people might seem as though they have everything under control and there whole lives under control and yet behind the scenes they are falling apart.